Life Coaching

Joined HandsWe rarely remember the famous people who rose to stardom, but we rarely forget the people who impacted us personally.  That is the essence of coaching.

As a life coach, I would like to partner with you so you can

  •  better navigate your journey;
  • identify and overcome obstacles in difficult times;
  • discover what is worthwhile;
  • feel appreciated;
  • find complete acceptance.

A life coach will…   partner with you to create a more satisfying and fulfilling life.

Help you…

  • explore what you desire in your life and work,
  • achieve your goals,
  • discover and remove obstacles and
  • create visions and plans.

To help people find vision and enable them to sustain that vision, is the noble work of a coach.

I am excited to begin my journey of more formally coaching clients – of helping them discovering and achieving their life goals.

 

I can…

I Can...

 

There are many things in my life that I have no control over.

For instance, I can’t change other people.  But I decided to make a list of things I can do; things God can help me do.

  • I can walk with integrity;
  • I can be an example of health, vitality and enthusiasm;
  • I can share winsomely with whoever God brings across my path; whomever God gives ears to hear;
  • I can have compassion – especially for those suffering damage from iatrogenic  causes;
  • I can help train others with similar passions to be sensitive spokespeople for health;
  • I can campaign;
  • I can educate myself;
  • I can make information clear and available;
  • I can share truth about God with fellow travelers – gradually with sensitivity;
  • I can write to impact;
  • I can seek to be a difference maker, continuously exploring ways of effectively making a difference with others.

Those are some of the things I can do.  I am sure I can think of some more.   Even if your current situation is not optimal, what are the things you can do?

Thanksgiving 2015Author: Becky Hastings, wife, mother, grandmother, passionate follower of Jesus and truth. As a breastfeeding counsellor for over 23 years Becky is devoted to helping parents make wise decisions for the long-term health and wellbeing of their babies. As a member of a Vaccine Safety Education Coalition, Becky writes and speaks on the topic of vaccine safety.

Submission

In order for God to extend my influence in many arenas He needs me to be wholly and humbly submitted to Him. One of the clearest evidences of my submission is seen in my heart and life response to “wives submit to your husbands, as to the Lord” (from Colossians 3).  God has given my husband greater physical strength, different biology, and different brain wiring.  God has also designated him to be the ’deciding vote’ in matters where we disagree.  Most people are familiar with a CEO or President in a company carrying more voting power AND more RESPONSIBILITY.

As I submit to my husband, I am not a doormat. I can present my case.  I can have a viewpoint that differs from my husband’s.  I know he values and seeks out my opinions.  But when we disagree (which is often) I can humbly submit, without any bitterness, resentment, nagging or manipulation, knowing that I am actually surrendering my desires in this issue to God.

Ultimately God can turn my husband’s heart. God may also be protecting me from something I am currently unaware of.

It’s not easy and I don’t always get it right (ask my children – or my husband).  As I seek to wholly surrender myself to Jesus, because of how He surrendered EVERYTHING for me, my faith in His ability to guide my life grows.

Surrender is a part of the journey, how have you learned submission and surrender?

My Heart about Health

Sand Heart smallI believe the #1 biggest problem with all people is self deception. This is compounded by the fact that as humans, our  primary motivator is sensual indulgence.  We want quick easy, painfree lives.

To illustrate the first point, every prisoner in jail is able to justify why they are not guilty. As an extreme example:

When Kermit Gosnell was convicted and sentenced to a long time in prison for the murder of babies and at least one mother through performing very late term abortions in appalling conditions (filthy) with untrained employees for nearly 20 years in Pennsylvania, USA, his understanding of himself and his situation was surprising.

He gave a private interview to one reporter and apparently views himself as a victim of the system:  the laws are wrong about abortion, he was only helping to alleviate and fight poverty, etc.  He was all about helping women.  He sees himself as a Christian man and there was nothing wrong with what he did.  He would slit the neck of any baby that managed to live through his abortion in order to severe the spinal cord “because they were dying already, and would die, to help them not experience pain.”

I obviously fall into the category “all people” and realize my own propensity for self-deception.  I am also aware that there are many deceptive forces in the world seeking to deceive people.  These forces prey on our desire for pain free, sensually full lives.  I am well aware of my imperfections and past heinous sins both due to deception and sensual indulgence and I thank God every day for the grace He has shown me in forgiving my sins and helping me to see them clearly in light of His perfection. I believe He has opened my eyes to understand many truths about a lot of things I haven’t always understood.

One area I have gained a new understanding of is the allopathic medical system, which might have started with good intentions, but has been hijacked on many fronts for gain.  Having grown greatly in my awareness of health and wellness – how to achieve it and maintain it – and being exposed to the false basis most people are putting their faith in – pharmaceutical fixes, medical experts, surgery, chemotherapy, vaccines, etc., I feel compelled to help people understand that just because information comes beautifully packaged, it is not always trustworthy.  Doctors have received most of their medical education with a strong pharmaceutical bias.  Drug manufacturers have become incredibly clever at marketing and dodge ball.  Get your drugs into the hands of people first, answer allegations, or withdraw your bad drug later.

So many government agencies and even ‘non profit’ fundraising groups have degenerated to become orientated around their own self-perpetuation and job security rather than the ‘good’ they are supposed to be doing. Most of their time, money and marketing is spent to justify their very existence rather than seeking truth and helping increase the health, safety or betterment of individuals or the country. The FDA, CDC and other federal agencies have unwittingly become industry captives and are not able to provide the protection they were originally designed to give. The public faith blindly given to so many aspects of our society, has unfortunately become very risky.

I admit that I have perhaps gone a bit too far in my cynicism and disbelief in the traditional “sickness oriented” medical system.  I think surgeons are fantastic when they have to put people back together after a severe accident.  Most doctors and others connected with the medical system are not evil people.  However, the deception is great and the reverence for pharmaceutical solutions is very powerful.  I want to warn the unsuspecting and figure out how to effectively help others grow in their understanding of how to further their own health.  I want to help people enjoy vibrant health and wholeness of soul. I appreciate many who have helped me along in my journey.

We are all on a journey of discovery.  What have you discovered about wellness and wholeness on your journey?

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I often get fantastic inspiration for my life from the words of the ancient writers who wrote encouragement to fellow Christ-followers.  Their words have been recorded for us in what we know today as the Bible.

I have tried to stimulate your wholesome thinking and refresh your memory.  Peter

That is my desire too.  Unfortunately, Peter reminds us that there are others in our world who have a desire that is quite different:

They deliberately forget that God made the heavens by the word of his command…

So we can either actively remember that we have been created by a Creator with a unique purpose, or we can deliberately forget or ignore our Creator.  We live with a daily choice. My hope is that this small resource will help to refresh our memory of our Creator and turn our thoughts to Him so that we can receive a Journey Boost!

 

A Letter to My Adult Children About Vaccinations

DSC_0075There are many things I would like to share with you about many subjects, but I am going to limit myself in this short blog to the topic of vaccinations. I can’t share everything I’ve learned over my 31 years of research, but I will try to highlight the most important things. This advice might conflict with the mainstream.  My wish for you is that you would never fit comfortably into mainstream for anything!

You are an adult now and you have the privilege of making decisions for yourself.  You get to weigh up all the evidence and decide what course of action you want to take.  You know that I have very strong opinions about things and I haven’t exactly been shy to express some of them to you.  But now you have to figure out what you believe for yourself.  I want you to discover why I have such strong opinions and hope that my thoughts can give you clarity for what you want to do.

Because… along with the opportunity of deciding you will also carry the responsibility to live with the choices you make.

Firstly, decide on a basis for your exploration.  My personal foundation for every decision I make in my life stems from my relationship with Jesus and my understanding of His instructions.  Above all, seek the guidance of Jesus.  Paul tells us in Colossians 2 that in Jesus are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.  If you are feeling unsure, if you are feeling frightened, those aren’t good signs.  You can be frightened in either direction.  So seek the treasures of wisdom and knowledge that are found in Jesus and take whatever time it takes to do that. Don’t let anyone rush you out of fear.

Secondly, always carefully examine the source of any information and decide if there could be any conflict of interest. Someone who is deriving their entire living, or a huge part of it, based on the vaccine program, is possibly not going to be as objective as someone who receives no benefit from your choice. Now there are many parents telling you their stories and some of them have written books because they want to share their horrific journey of death, disability, or long term illness. They may sell their books and they may derive some money (i.e. Markus Heinze and many others). But the level of compensation pales in comparison to those who have interests in the pharmaceutical industry, medical system, or even in the government agencies that recommend these vaccine schedules. And, many of these parents (i.e. April Rene, Vera Duffy, etc.) have been offering this information for free or donate proceeds from book sales to further promote education to parents on vaccine realities. So, consider carefully the source of the information and all possible conflicts of interest.

Conflicts of interest are not always obvious and apparent.  Sometimes there are people in academic positions whose entire life, career, and livelihood depends on the acceptance and adherence to vaccine dogma. The entire basis of their scientific understanding is built on vaccine theory; their entire education – all their investment of their time through their entire life – rests on the foundation of one understanding: the way they were taught about how the immune system works. Their whole belief system rests on that.  And to actually discover anything that goes against their basic premise becomes too dangerous for them and they don’t want to know the truth. They can’t look objectively at the evidence. Thus, even if they don’t work directly for a pharmaceutical company, maybe for an academic or government institution, their investment is so high into that philosophy that they are unable to see clearly the actual evidence when it is presented to them.

Some people that I respect highly are those who understand that level of academic buy-in to the vaccine industry, and who have received the same training, and yet they began to question the system based on specific events that happened in their life, or in the life of their patients.

Doctor Suzanne Humphries is a nephrologist (kidney specialist) from Canada who saw the horrific impact of routine vaccinations on her adult patients who were suffering with kidney conditions. She questioned the changes to standard hospital practice and was amazed at the lack of support she received from the hospital administration when questioning possible vaccine reactions.

Dr Russell Blaylock, neurologist, has developed an incredible theory about how the brain works and what impact neurotoxins have on the brain and how it impacts our health.  He understands the ingredients in the vaccines and has seen the impact on brain tissue. He is a brilliant man; a nice, grandfatherly-like man. He is a man whose understanding could help enlighten the world, if, we weren’t blinded by our own bias and belief system. He explains the blood brain barrier and knows which ingredients can cross it, when and how and the devastating impact it has on the brain.  He has done countless brain scans and research and can clearly see the damage to brains from toxic substances.

There are hundreds of trained medical professionals who are speaking out strongly against vaccines and the ‘science’ that supposedly supports them.  Last of all, I just want to say that if you do decide to vaccinate yourself or your children for anything, please, please consider the following points carefully:

Your newborn infant was designed perfectly by God with a developing immune system that is amazing.  Keep in mind that the blood/brain barrier is not fully developed until around the age of two (some experts hypothesize much later, like eight years).  Any substance that is injected into a baby’s body can have direct access to the brain of an infant, who does not have the protection that naturally develops as the body and brain matures.  Take these two years (or more) to research the facts and science thoroughly.  Don’t feel any pressure.

Take a look at all the ingredients in every single vaccination you are considering.  There are many toxins added for various reasons.  Some are preservatives, some are specifically added as an adjunct – or something to give an oomph to the immune system so that it will purposely respond to the offending disease cells.  These substances will cross the blood brain barrier and do cause damage to the developing brain. Read the vaccine package insert on any shot you are considering.

Absolutely don’t vaccinate before six months of age for anything for any reason.  Do not cave in to pressure from any source.  During those six months, wear your baby as often as you can: either you, your spouse, or a trusted family member.  Wear your baby.  The act of wearing your baby will enhance your baby’s brain development, immune system, and ensure optimal brain development. A parents most important role is to protect their baby’s brain.

Exclusively breastfeed your baby for those six months, slowly adding whole, healthy complimentary foods after that, while continuing to breastfeed .  Don’t worry about how often or how much. Just breastfeed them as often as they will suck and take the breast. If you need a break – take a QUICK break.  And remember, this is just six months and it will pass all too quickly and become a memory. Give your all during this six months and you will find the benefits pay off for life. If breastfeeding is painful, get help early. By the time you’ve made it to six months, you and your baby will have figured out a lot of things about this breastfeeding relationship and will have a lot of confidence to continue and design this vital life-giving relationship according to all of your needs.

If you have to vaccinate, never ever give any injections while your baby is sick – even just with a snotty nose.  Just wait.  The risk is not worth it.  Also, never give Tylenol for any reason before or after a vaccination reaction. It has been specifically shown to cause greater harm.  And, if you have to vaccinate, never ever give multiple injections on the same day.  Spread them out far and wide.

Imagine bombarding the immune system with multiple viral and toxic exposure.  Would you ever walk into a room where you knew people had active cases of measles, mumps, whooping cough, and polio all around you? And people were smoking at the same time and there was chlorine in the corner giving out its noxious gas?  Would you ever do that?  In the same way, it just can’t be wise to expose yourself to multiple toxins and multiple disease-causing substances at the same time. I cannot comprehend the rationale behind exposing our precious perfect children to this kind of toxic chemical mix all in the name of good health.

Finally, seek God, believe in yourself, and share truth.  There are so many in this world who have been deceived.  Some have been deceived so deeply and for so long that their first exposure to truth is not going to convince them.  Be patient with them.  But be set in your mind and be bold enough to care enough to continue to share truth with them.

All my love, forever and always,

Mom

More resources to investigate

30 Ways in 30 Days to Explore Vaccines

Thanksgiving 2015

Author: Becky Hastings, wife, blessed mom of five, MIL to 2, and grandmother of four so far. I passionately follow Jesus Christ, seek to be healthy, read and understand relevant research, and share truth with others.

Why a Blog

Thoughts keep entering my mind and I need to share them.  They may or may not be helpful to you.  Take what is useful, leave what you aren’t interested in.  These are the incredible people I have been blessed to do life with…

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God has blessed me richly, not because of anything I deserved.  I desire to pass on what I have learned through the treasures of wisdom and knowledge I have found in Jesus Christ.